Friday, May 17, 2013

Happy Birfcake, Everyone!

Haha!  Sadie used to say that on her birthdays.  She would wish everyone around her a Happy Birfcake.  I loved that.

Soooooo, I turned 36 last month.  We flew home from our trip to Belize on my birthday, which I mentioned previously.  That night, I really didn't want to cook (and we had no food left, because our kids eat us out of house and home), so we went to Red Robin, just as a little family.


The following Friday, I threw myself a birthday party.  That's right.  I like to celebrate my birthdays, even though it's sad that I'm getting older and older.  I want to be surrounded by family and sing and eat cake and have a nice time.  So I arranged it myself.  My darling friend, Kathleen, volunteered to make a cake for me, and dang, it was so good.
 Pete suggested that everyone sing Happy Birthday like robots.  It was funny. :)
I was singing, "Happy Birthday to ME, Happy Birthday to ME..."  Micah and Ivy thought that was hilarious:
My bro-in-law, Chris, got me this awesome card with a chicken who dances to "I like to move it, move it," every time you open the card.  Gage was enthralled with it and carried it around with him for days afterward:
My friend Megs was taking pictures, and she asked Nat and I to pose.  I love these pictures.  We're so spazzy.

 Then we made what Nat's family calls "Duckface."

 Haha!  Nat is way better at that than I am.

Anyways, it was a great birthday.  I got lots of wonderful presents, but more importantly, I was surrounded by the people I love.

Thursday, May 16, 2013

Cards, Cards, Cards!

So dude.  I'm sorry I've been so sporadic in my blogging.  I have been so. stinking. busy.  And my blogging time used to be in the morning.  Gage had his own room downstairs, and he loved to sleep in until 10 or so.  The older kids would be at school, and Micah was usually happy playing by himself in the morning.  (It's the afternoons and evenings when he is, to use a term my bestie Pooh uses in reference to her three-year-old, "a complete punk.  Not just a punk.  A complete punk."  Maybe he's more tired at that time?  Probably.) 

When my grandpa died, we inherited his queen box springs and mattress, which are in really fantastic shape.  So we thought, "Welp, it's time to give Dylan his own room with the queen bed, and it's time to have Micah and Gage share a bunk bed."  So we made that transition - Dylan is in HOG HEAVEN with that bed, by the way - and now Micah, The Early Riser, happily and loudly wakes his little brother at 7:30 on the dot every morning.  So then Gage is grumpy from waking up earlier than he wants to, resulting in him being up in my grill all morning until his nap.  Won't leave me alone.  Won't give me a moment to rest.  I am his jungle gym.  His food provider.  His helper.  His playmate.  His protector (from Micah).  His everything.  And he thinks it's hilarious to pound on my keyboard while I'm trying to type.

So Blogging Time has been all skewed.  And I can't concentrate on blogging at night when Ben is here, because he listens to things on TV SO LOUDLY.  (When I work on my Sunday School lessons, I literally have to put ear plugs in my ears to drown out the noise of my children's sycophantic screaming and my husband's loud TV habit.)  Plus I feel weird blogging with Ben around.  He always looks over my shoulder and makes me feel all blushy and weird.  And I'm so busy during the day with my crazy kiddos. I just need to figure out when to carve some time out for myself to do this.  Because I love to journal.

Part of the so. stinking. busy. thing has been a Mother's Day gift I was working on for my mom:
When Gramps died, my sister, Beads, and I made a scrapbook of pictures from his life to give to Mom (and to display at our little family luncheon after the graveside service).  We spent an entire day scanning old pictures, and then two more entire days assembling the scrapbook.  And it's not that pretty.  We just slapped those pictures on there.  Time was of the essence. 

My mom loves the scrapbook of Grandpa and was saying how much she wanted a scrapbook of pictures of Grandma, so two of my sisters and I decided to do that for her for Mother's Day.  Well, three of us financed it, and I got to do it. :)  Which is fine.  I love scrapbooking.  But, long story short, I worked on that sucker every night for three weeks or so and still didn't have it finished in time for Mother's Day.  Sigh.  So it's still a work in progress.  I want to get it done sometime this millenium, so I haven't even added any embellishments.  Just paper and cutting and arranging and gluing.

Also - EEEEEE! - I got a Silhouette for my birthday, and I've been spending tons of time getting to know it and understand it and use it.  For those who don't know, a Silhouette looks like a printer, but it's an intricate cutter. It can cut anything.  So you either draw shapes or buy shapes digitally from the online store, and you can adjust them and cut them.  You can cut ANY SHAPE YOU COULD EVER THINK OF.  Amazing. My good friend Megs has one and I've been coveting it for a couple of years. 

So now, no more drawing things freehand and cutting them out, one by one, with scissors.  If I want to make a paper frame, no more punching a hole in the middle of my shape with the end of my scissors and cutting the inside of the square to make a frame.  My cards will look so much more professional and amazing.  My Silhouette makes me really, REALLY happy.

Sooooo, with my new Silhouette, I designed some Mother's Day cards and some Graduation Cards.  Are you ready for the cuteness????

I downloaded the owl shapes and the saying from the Silhouette online store, and my Silhouette came with 50 shapes already, one of which is that bookplate shape at the bottom.  And the gorgeous background paper was a birthday gift from my friend Kathleen.

And here's the graduation card I designed for my two sisters who got their Master's and Doctorate degrees, respectively:

I downloaded the manila envelope and tag shapes from the Silhouette online store as well.  No more freehanding an envelope shape and cutting it out with scissors.  No more measuring and cutting my own tags and going, "That tag doesn't look symmetrical..."  That background paper is also from Kathleen.

So. much. fun.

And no, I don't have any extras in my etsy shop yet.  Sorry 'bout tha'.  I just have to finish this scrapbook before I can move forward with more cards.  I have tons and tons that I need to make and lots of cute paper to make them with.

One more feast for the eyes before I go.  In my cardmaking group, our leader (a Stampin' Up Consultant) taught us a new technique which we used to make this gorgeous card:
I know, right? I die every time I look at this card.  I gave this one to my mom for Mother's Day.  It's just wayyyy too gorgeous to keep to myself.  I want to try this technique with more cards. 

Kay, I have to go to seven trillion dishes... sigh...

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

The Lesson - What can I learn from living prophets and apostles? - What I Did.

*  Before class, I wrote on the board, "Why is it important to listen to general conference?"

1.  Making Connections

I handed out the following worksheet at the beginning of class.  I had answers of my own prepared in case they couldn't think of anything themselves, just to kind of give them an example of what I wanted them to think about, but they did really well without needing my help.  Here's the worksheet:

Making Connections

Directions: Write the answers to each of these questions in the spaces provided.

1.  Share a recent experience in which someone asked you a question about the gospel. How did you respond?




2.  Be prepared to tell us about a talk that impressed you from the most recent general conference. Why was is meaningful to you? (Below is a list of talks and names of the speakers to help refresh your memory.)





Saturday Morning Session

Welcome to Conference By President Thomas S. Monson
These Things I Know By President Boyd K. Packer
A Sure Foundation By Bishop Dean M. Davies
We Are Daughters of Our Heavenly Father By Elaine S. Dalton
The Savior Wants to Forgive By Elder Craig A. Cardon
“This Is My Work and Glory” By Elder M. Russell Ballard
“Come unto Me” By President Henry B. Eyring 

Saturday Afternoon Session

For Peace at Home By Elder Richard G. Scott
Personal Peace: The Reward of Righteousness By Elder Quentin L. Cook
The Lord’s Way By Elder Stanley G. Ellis
The Gospel to All the World By Elder John B. Dickson
We Believe in Being Chaste By Elder David A. Bednar
Catch the Wave By Elder Russell M. Nelson 

Priesthood Session

Stand Strong in Holy Places By Elder Robert D. Hales
The Power of the Priesthood in the Boy By Elder Tad R. Callister
Your Sacred Duty to Minister By David L. Beck
Four Titles By President Dieter F. Uchtdorf
We Are One By President Henry B. Eyring
Come, All Ye Sons of God By President Thomas S. Monson 

Sunday Morning Session

The Hope of God’s Light By President Dieter F. Uchtdorf
It’s a Miracle By Elder Neil L. Andersen
The Words We Speak By Rosemary M. Wixom
Marriage: Watch and Learn By Elder L. Whitney Clayton
Obedience to Law Is Liberty By Elder L. Tom Perry
Obedience Brings Blessings By President Thomas S. Monson 

Sunday Afternoon Session

“Lord, I Believe” By Elder Jeffrey R. Holland
Followers of Christ By Elder Dallin H. Oaks
The Father and the Son By Elder Christoffel Golden Jr.
The Home: The School of Life By Elder Enrique R. Falabella
Being Accepted of the Lord By Elder Erich W. Kopischke
Beautiful Mornings By Elder Bruce D. Porter
Redemption By Elder D. Todd Christofferson
Until We Meet Again By President Thomas S. Monson 

General Young Women Meeting

Your Holy Places By Ann M. Dibb
When You Save a Girl, You Save Generations By Mary N. Cook
Be Not Moved! By Elaine S. Dalton
Your Wonderful Journey Home By President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

The kids were glad that I provided a list.  It helped to jog their memories a little bit.  I had the Mia Maid/Teacher group in with my class, so it was a bigger group, but I felt impressed to have each and every student share their answers.  It took a little while, but the Spirit was there, everyone was listening to everyone else, and the kids shared some really neat things.  A couple of girls pulled out little journals where they had written notes from conference and referred to those.  (These kids are incredible!!)  In fact, this activity ended up taking the entire time!!  But I kept feeling like we needed every person to share.  So I went with it. You gotta go with those feelings.  Here is what I had prepared for the rest of the lesson:
2.  Why it's important to listen to general conference 
I was just going to point to the question on the board and have them come up and write down as many answers that they could think of - just like the lesson suggested.  
Then I was going to hand out some scripture references and snippets of President Monson's talk, "As We Gather Once Again."  Here were the slips of paper I was going to hand out:
Read the following scripture. Look in the scripture for reasons we listen to general conference. If you find something in your scripture that hasn't been listed on the board yet, go to the board and write it down. If you find something in your scripture that's already been listed, go to the board and put an asterisk next to it.


Mosiah 8:16-18


Read the following scripture. Look in the scripture for reasons we listen to general conference. If you find something in your scripture that hasn't been listed on the board yet, go to the board and write it down. If you find something in your scripture that's already been listed, go to the board and put an asterisk next to it.


D&C 1:38


Read the following scripture. Look in the scripture for reasons we listen to general conference. If you find something in your scripture that hasn't been listed on the board yet, go to the board and write it down. If you find something in your scripture that's already been listed, go to the board and put an asterisk next to it.


D&C 68:3-4


Read the following portion of President Thomas S. Monson's talk from April's General Conference, “As We Gather Once Again.” Look for reasons we listen to general conference. If you find something in this section of the talk that hasn't been listed on the board yet, go to the board and write it down. If you find something in this section that's already been listed, go to the board and put an asterisk next to it.


My beloved brothers and sisters, as we gather once again in a general conference of the Church, I welcome you and express my love to you. We meet each six months to strengthen one another, to extend encouragement, to provide comfort, to build faith. We are here to learn. Some of you may be seeking answers to questions and challenges you are experiencing in your life. Some are struggling with disappointments or losses. Each can be enlightened and uplifted and comforted as the Spirit of the Lord is felt.


Read the following portion of President Thomas S. Monson's talk from April's General Conference, “As We Gather Once Again.” Look for reasons we listen to general conference. If you find something in this section of the talk that hasn't been listed on the board yet, go to the board and write it down. If you find something in this section that's already been listed, go to the board and put an asterisk next to it.


Should there be changes which need to be made in your life, may you find the incentive and the courage to do so as you listen to the inspired words which will be spoken. May each of us resolve anew to live so that we are worthy sons and daughters of our Heavenly Father. May we continue to oppose evil wherever it is found.


Read the following portion of President Thomas S. Monson's talk from April's General Conference, “As We Gather Once Again.” Look for reasons we listen to general conference. If you find something in this section of the talk that hasn't been listed on the board yet, go to the board and write it down. If you find something in this section that's already been listed, go to the board and put an asterisk next to it.


Now, my brothers and sisters, we have come to be instructed and inspired. Many messages will be shared during the next two days. I can assure you that those men and women who will address you have sought heaven’s help and direction as they have prepared their messages. They have been inspired concerning that which they will share with us.


Read the following portion of President Thomas S. Monson's talk from April's General Conference, “As We Gather Once Again.” Look for reasons we listen to general conference. If you find something in this section of the talk that hasn't been listed on the board yet, go to the board and write it down. If you find something in this section that's already been listed, go to the board and put an asterisk next to it.


Our Heavenly Father is mindful of each of us and our needs. May we be filled with His Spirit as we partake of the proceedings of this conference. This is my sincere prayer in the sacred name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, amen.


Here are the notes I took in my notebook.  I was going to add any of the following points if the kids missed writing them down:

Mosiah 8: 16 - 18 - a prophet can make past, future, and hidden things known.
                             - a prophet can work miracles
                             - a prophet can greatly benefit others.
D&C 1:38 - the Lord's words are spoken through the prophet
D&C 68: 3 - 4 - what the prophets speak are scripture
                     - prophets are the voice of the Lord
                     - prophets bring us salvation
As We Gather Once Again - Paragraph 1 - we are strengthened
                                                                - we are encouraged
                                                                - we are comforted
                                                                - our faith is built
                                                                - to learn
                                                                - get answers to our questions
                                          - Paragraph 2 - helps us want to change
                                          - Second-to-last paragraph - speakers are inspired by the Spirit
                                                                                       about what to share
                                          - Last paragraph - we can feel the Spirit


3.  Challenges of the Youth Today

I did this activity last August.  You can find that lesson plan here. The lesson plan they gave us last August was a little different, but you can see what I did last year, if you want.  I did something completely different during the first half, and I did the following activity for the second half.  When I saw they still suggested that the kids search this recent conference for answers to challenges that the youth face, I pulled out the posterboard that I had made last year, but I changed the challenges and responses to match this most recent conference.  I taped the challenges to the board, and then I was going to hand out the responses to these challenges to each of the kids.  Then I was going to have them match the answers to the challenges.  When we did this activity last year, it went really well.


So here are the challenges and the answers to the challenges that I found in this last conference:


Jane has a lot of problems in her family life. She feels a lot of sorrow and a lot of worry as a result of her family members' choices. What can she do to dissipate the darkness that she feels all around her?

First, start where you are. The very moment you begin to seek your Heavenly Father, in that moment, the hope of His light will begin to awaken, enliven, and ennoble your soul.5 The darkness may not dissipate all at once, but as surely as night always gives way to dawn, the light will come.

Second, turn your heart toward the Lord. Lift up your soul in prayer and explain to your Heavenly Father what you are feeling. Acknowledge your shortcomings. Pour out your heart and express your gratitude. Let Him know of the trials you are facing. Plead with Him in Christ’s name for strength and support. Ask that your ears may be opened, that you may hear His voice. Ask that your eyes may be opened, that you may see His light.
Third, walk in the light. God sent His Son to this earth to illuminate the way and show us how to safely cross the stumbling blocks placed in our path. He has given us the gospel, which teaches the way of the disciple. It teaches us the things we must know, do, and be to walk in His light, following in the footsteps of His Beloved Son, our Savior.
As we seek to increase our love for God and strive to love our neighbor, the light of the gospel will surround and uplift us. The darkness will surely fade, because it cannot exist in the presence of light. As we draw near to God, He will draw near to us.6 And day by day, the hope of God’s light will grow within us, “brighter and brighter until the perfect day.”7

- Elder Dieter Uchtdorf, April 2013 General Conference, “The Hope of God's Light”

Lately, John has become a little lazy about church stuff. He's been slacking off in his scripture reading and personal prayer, and though he goes to church, he daydreams and doodles on a piece of paper the whole time and doesn't participate.

All who strive earnestly to follow the Christ are called His disciples. Although we recognize that none of us are perfect, we do not use that fact as an excuse to lower our expectations, to live beneath our privileges, to delay the day of our repentance, or to refuse to grow into better, more perfect, more refined followers of our Master and King.

  • Elder Dieter Uchtdorf, April 2013 General Conference, Priesthood Session, “Four Titles”

Janice is often frustrated by the lack of spirituality in her seminary class. She finds it difficult to improve her spirituality when others are so disruptive, and it angers and frustrates her a lot.

As President Grant said, the Savior’s peace can “blot out our hates.” Judgment is the Lord’s.
Emma Lou Thayne’s beloved hymn asks the appropriate questions: “Where can I turn for peace? Where is my solace when other sources cease to make me whole?”23 The answer is the Savior, who is the source and author of peace. He is the “Prince of Peace.”24
How do we stay close to the Savior? Humbling ourselves before God, praying always, repenting of sins, entering the waters of baptism with a broken heart and contrite spirit, and becoming true disciples of Jesus Christ are profound examples of the righteousness that is rewarded by abiding peace.
Temples are where many of these sacred ordinances occur and are also a source of peaceful refuge from the world. Those who visit temple grounds or participate in temple open houses also feel this peace.
  • Elder Quentin L. Cook, April 2013 General Conference, “Personal Peace, the Reward of Righteousness”
Josiah just got his mission call. He's very nervous and not at all sure that he's prepared.
Search the scriptures with diligence. Let me provide but one reference which has immediate application to our lives. In the Book of Mormon, the 17th chapter of Alma, we read the account of Alma’s joy as he once more saw the sons of Mosiah and noted their steadfastness in the cause of truth. The record tells us, “They had waxed strong in the knowledge of the truth; for they were men of a sound understanding and they had searched the scriptures diligently, that they might know the word of God.
“But this is not all; they had given themselves to much prayer, and fasting; therefore they had the spirit of prophecy, and the spirit of revelation, and when they taught, they taught with power and authority of God.”4
  • President Thomas S. Monson, April 2013 General Conference, Priesthood Session, “Come, All Ye Sons of God”

Jillian's dad has been assigned by his employer to work in a different country for a very long time. Jillian is very close to her dad and is depressed and upset that she won't see him at home every day. She worries that their relationship will change. She worries about his safety and comfort. How will she get by without talking to him every day? She's just really sad.

Brothers and sisters, we need not falter in hope and good cheer, because God is with us. To His Saints in our day, the Savior has said, “Be of good cheer, and do not fear, for I the Lord am with you, and will stand by you” (D&C 68:6). Trials may come, and we may not understand everything that happens to us or around us. But if we humbly, quietly trust in the Lord, He will give us strength and guidance in every challenge we face. When our only desire is to please Him, we will be blessed with a deep inner peace.

  • Elder Bruce D. Porter of the Seventy, April 2013 General Conference, “Beautiful Mornings”

Janell has had a lot of problems and drama with her friends lately. She's so tired of it and so frustrated.

A girl named Kate, who was experiencing a very difficult trial, said: “It was so hard. I knew I could make it a springboard for growth or allow it to be a roadblock. I didn’t want to let it ruin my life. I tried to be as close to the Lord as possible. I read my scriptures a lot. I prayed a lot. I wrote in my journal as often as I could. I kept my testimony vibrant by writing it down. I went to church and to Young Women every week. I kept close to caring relatives and especially to my mom, who was the anchor in our family. I sought out priesthood blessings from my grandfather and other priesthood holders.”

  • Mary N. Cook, First Counselor in the Young Women's Presidency, Young Women's Conference, “When You Save a Girl, You Save Generations”

Jeremy doesn't feel that his testimony is very strong. Sometimes he feels the Spirit, but he doesn't feel that he has very much gospel knowledge. He's trying to figure out if he should serve a mission in a couple of years.

In moments of fear or doubt or troubling times, hold the ground you have already won, even if that ground is limited. When those moments come and issues surface, the resolution of which is not immediately forthcoming, hold fast to what you already know and stand strong until additional knowledge comes. The size of your faith or the degree of your knowledge is not the issue—it is the integrity you demonstrate toward the faith you do have and the truth you already know. I am not asking you to pretend to faith you do not have. I am asking you to be true to the faith you do have. Furthermore, you have more faith than you think you do. Please don’t hyperventilate if from time to time issues arise that need to be examined, understood, and resolved. They do and they will. In this Church, what we know will always trump what we do not know. And remember, in this world, everyone is to walk by faith.

  • Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, April 2013 General Conference, “Lord, I Believe”

Jason has a hard time wanting to go to mutual on Tuesday nights. He thinks the activities are kind of lame. He doesn't really have a close relationship to any of the guys in his priesthood quorum, and he's not really attracted to any of the girls in his ward.

Be sure to participate in family, quorum, class, and combined Mutual activities. Enjoy wholesome fun together. Through these experiences you will come to respect and appreciate one another’s spiritual gifts and the eternal, complementary natures of the sons and daughters of God.

- Elder Robert D. Hales, April 2013 General Conference,“Stand Strong in Holy Places”

Here is what I planned to have the poster looking like when we finished:

Some of the answers can be interchanged, so if your students don't match up the challenges and answers the way I did, it's not a huge deal.  And that is that!  I'm out!
 



 
 
         

Friday, May 10, 2013

The Lesson - How can I liken the events of the Apostasy and the Restoration to my life? - What I Did.

Kay, so this was back in April when I gave this lesson - sorry it took me until now to post it.  Busy, busy, busy.  I've been working on a major project for my mom for Mother's Day.  After Sunday, I will have lots more time on my hands. :)

1.  Making Connections

I called a boy and a girl from my class a few days before church.  I asked them each to prepare to share what they have learned recently about the apostasy or the restoration in priesthood and Young Women's, respectively.  So I started out with each of them sharing that.  They did a great job.

Then we opened the scriptures to 1 Ne. 19:23 and I had one person read it aloud.  I asked them what it means to liken the scriptures unto us.  A couple of them raised their hands and talked about comparing the circumstances of the people in the scriptures to our own circumstances.

Then I pointed out that we can do the same thing - likening - with the events of the Apostasy and the Restoration.

2.  Likening Maze

I had printed out the section on Likening from Teaching, No Greater Call.  I had us read it together, each student reading a paragraph.  They moaned about so much reading at first, but I assured them that it wouldn't take long, and that they needed to pay attention, because we were going to do an activity with what we learned.  Here is the section we read:

Likening

We should “liken all scriptures unto us, that it might be for our profit and learning” (1 Nephi 19:23). To liken the scriptures means to see how scripture accounts are similar to circumstances today and to show how the principles they teach are relevant in our lives. For example, in a lesson about standing up for the truth, you could liken the story of Abinadi in the court of King Noah to those you teach (see Mosiah 11–17). To teach about our spiritual blindness and the Savior’s power to heal us and give us greater spiritual vision, you could liken the story of Christ healing the blind man (see John 9).

You will use this method most effectively when you give family members or class members an opportunity to ponder what they read. For example, after teaching about Joseph Smith’s response when he was nearly overcome by the adversary in the Sacred Grove (see Joseph Smith—History 1:15–16), you could ask learners to recall and even write down an experience in which they were tried and tested. Then you could invite them to think about why it is important in times of trial to exert “all [our] powers to call upon God” (verse 16).

To help family members and class members see that the scriptures are relevant, you should teach in ways that connect the experiences of the prophets and people of the past to the experiences of individuals today. As you prepare each lesson, ask yourself how the principle (or story or event) is like something family members or class members have experienced in their own lives. For example, if you are teaching a lesson that includes a discussion of the Ten Commandments, you might wonder how to teach about the commandment against making and worshiping graven images (see Exodus 20:4–5). Most members of the Church have had little experience with the worship of graven images. However, there are many other things that people sometimes “worship.” As you teach, you might liken the ancient commandment in Exodus 20:4–5 to something more familiar: modern society’s worship of money, athleticism, pleasure, or popularity.

Almost every story in the scriptures can be likened to our lives. Consider the following story about a teacher who likened a scripture account to those she taught:

One ward was experiencing problems with Primary teachers providing treats every week during class. The treats detracted from the Spirit and focused the children’s attention away from the lessons. The Primary president asked the ward teacher improvement coordinator to present a sharing time that would address the problem.

The teacher improvement coordinator pondered ways to present the ideas to both the teachers and the children. None of the approaches seemed to be quite right. Then as she reflected again on her assignment one morning, she was reminded of the account of Christ feeding the 5,000, which her family had recently read together. She remembered that after Jesus fed the multitude, there were people who followed Him because they wanted to be given food, not because they wanted to hear the gospel (see John 6:26–27).
That Sunday, the teacher improvement coordinator related this story. She used the story to teach the true reason for coming to Primary: to give and receive spiritual food.

Another way to help others liken the scriptures to themselves is to ask them to insert themselves into the scriptural text. For example, if someone places himself or herself in James 1:5–6, the teaching on prayer becomes as applicable to him or her as it was to Joseph Smith:

“If [I] lack wisdom, let [me] ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given [me]. But let [me] ask in faith, nothing wavering.”

Many times we can liken the scriptures to our lives by asking, “What did the prophet who recorded this account want us to learn from it? Why did he include these particular details?” When we ask these questions about the story of Enos, for example, we can discover applications to our own experiences with prayer. We can learn that praying sometimes takes much effort and that Heavenly Father answers our prayers. We can also learn that parents influence their children, even though it may take many years for the children to follow their parents’ teachings.

As we liken the scriptures to ourselves and help others do the same, we will be able to see the power of the word of God in every aspect of our lives.

- Teaching, No Greater Call (1999), 170–71 

Then I handed out these mazes, which are from a Family Home Evening manual, on a completely different topic.  I just changed it to fit this topic.  You'll see.  Here's the maze worksheet I gave them:

You'll have to click on it to see the directions better.  Basically, it says that I'm going to verbally give them some statements about what we just read.  If they felt that the statement was true, they would turn right in the maze. If they felt that the statement was false, they would turn left in the maze.  If they got all the answers right, they'd reach the end of the maze.

The kids thought this was hilarious, because the  maze is seriously easy, and they could have just done the maze by themselves, but I told them to indulge me. 

Here are the statements I gave them:

Questions and Answers for “Likening – A Review Activity”

  1. In a lesson about standing up for the truth, you could liken the story of Abinadi in the court of King Noah to those you teach. (True.)
  2. The best way to help people to liken is not to let them ponder what they've read for very long. (False.)
  3. A strategy for likening is this – as you prepare each lesson, ask yourself if you want a sandwich. (False.)
  4. Almost every story in the scriptures can be likened to our lives. (True.)
  5. The treats the Primary teachers brought detracted from the Spirit and focused the children's attention away from the lessons. (True.)
  6. As the teacher improvement coordinator reflected on her assignment, she was reminded of the story of Enos. (False.)
  7. The teacher used the story of Christ feeding the 5,000 to teach the true reason for coming to Primary: to give and receive spiritual food. (True.)
  8. When you're trying to liken, it does not help to insert yourself into the scriptural text. (False.)
  9. James 1:5-6 says, in part, “If any man lack wisdom, let him ask his mom.” (False.)
  10. A good strategy for likening is to ask why the prophets recorded the things they did. (True.)
 Then I made some handouts for the kids to stick up on their mirrors, closets, lockers, folders, or, let's be honest, the garbage.  Haha!  The handouts talk about the three strategies you can use to liken:

Here's what they say, up close:

Strategies You Can Use to Liken the Scriptures to Yourselves

1. Ask yourself how the principle is like something you have experienced in your life. 
2. Insert yourself into the scriptural text. (“If [I] lack wisdom, let [me] ask of God...) 
3. Ask yourself why the prophets recorded the things they did.

3.  Likening the Apostasy to Ourselves

I gave each student a copy of this quote from True to the Faith:

Periods of general apostasy have occurred throughout the history of the world. After times of righteousness, people have often turned to wickedness. One example is the Great Apostasy, which occurred after the Savior established His Church. After the deaths of the Savior and His Apostles, men
corrupted the principles of the gospel and made unauthorized changes in Church organization and priesthood ordinances. Because of this widespread wickedness, the Lord withdrew the authority of the priesthood from the earth.

  • True to the Faith (2004), 13–14

Then I made the chart on the board that they suggested we make in the lesson, with The Great Apostasy on the left, and Personal Apostasy on the right.  I had them look at their quote and tell me the events that caused the great apostasy.  Then we tried to find comparisons straight across the chart for personal apostasy.  Here is a chart of what we came up with:

The Great Apostasy
Personal Apostasy
The apostles were killed after the death of Christ.
Rejecting or criticizing the living apostles.
Men corrupted the principles of the gospel.
Misunderstanding the scriptures.
Unauthorized changes in Church organization.
Not supporting the leaders in your ward or stake.
Unauthorized changes in Priesthood ordinances.
Not living worthy of the priesthood, not showing proper respect toward the priesthood.
Widespread wickedness.
Disobeying the commandments.


Then I had one student read this quote about guarding against personal apostasy:

Although there will not be another general apostasy from the truth, we must each guard against
personal apostasy. You can safeguard yourself against personal apostasy by keeping your covenants, obeying the commandments, following Church leaders, partaking of the sacrament, and constantly strengthening your testimony through daily scripture study, prayer, and service.

- True to the Faith (2004), 13-14


4.  Likening the Restoration to Ourselves

I really loved the video they showed of the teenagers likening the restoration to themselves.  I don't have a laptop, but I found the video on youtube and got it all set up on my smart phone so that I could show it to my students. 

*We ran out of time at this point!  But the video is really a nice way to end the class.  If we had had more time, I would have done this:

I was going to hand out slips of paper with transcripts of what each teenager in the movie said and have my students look for ways that the youth in the video relate the events of the Restoration to their own lives:

Directions: Here is a transcript of part of the video you just watched. Re-read what this young man said, and be prepared to tell the class how he related the first vision to his life.

Right now, we're at the Sacred Grove, where the first vision and the beginning of our Church started here at this place. I know I'm weak and I know I give in to temptation so easily, and I asked Heavenly Father for strength that I may stay steadfast, and I'll always have this feeling to be with me. All of my fears were taken away. If you lack wisdom, you can ask of God. I didn't know that before. I didn't believe it until I actually did it in faith.

Directions: Here is a transcript of part of the video you just watched. Re-read what this young woman said, and be prepared to tell the class how she related the vision from the angel Moroni to her life.

We're outside the Joseph Smith log home, and in the upper floor in the bedroom is where Joseph Smith received the vision from the angel Moroni when he was 17 years old. Joseph Smith was so young when he had both the first vision and when the angel Moroni came to him. To me, that just shows that, to God, age is no barrier, because He has the eternal perspective, and He knows our divine potential, and He knows what is best for us and what He needs us to do to help progress his work.

Directions: Here is a transcript of part of the video you just watched. Re-read what this young woman said, and be prepared to tell the class how she related the organization of the Church to her life.

I'm Darby Welpham, I'm 16, I live in Palmyra, New York, and we are currently at the Whitmer Farm. Pretty much this is just where everything started; this is where the first Church gatherings were held, this is where the Church was organized. You look at the Conference Center, at all those people in that huge building, and this is where the humble beginnings, like, everything started. It just kind of proves that, like, literally, anything is possible through the Lord. I mean, if a meeting of a few people here can turn into what the Church is today, if the Lord is on your side and you're doing his work, anything can get done, and anything's possible.

Directions: Here is a transcript of part of the video you just watched. Re-read what this young man said, and be prepared to tell the class how he related the events that happened in Nauvoo to his life.

We're currently standing in Nauvoo, Illinois, at the Nauvoo temple. It's a place where sacrifice is so evident, and allows for people and myself to reach beyond the grave and to really focus on our heritage and look back on the past and how those people really overcame their trials and sacrificed their entire lives up to the Lord, and how I can honor that personally, go to the temple and really do family history work and value everything they did by using the temple.

Directions: Here is a transcript of part of the video you just watched. Re-read what this young man said, and be prepared to tell the class how he related the old homes of early church members to his life.

We're at the Brigham Young home in Nauvoo. Growing up in the 21st century and trying to live a righteous life, it's really difficult to, you know, get away from the world sometimes. And the homes they have here are so family-centered, that's inspired me so much to make my home a little bit more family-centered and to make sure that is the primary focus that we have.

Directions: Here is a transcript of part of the video you just watched. Re-read what this young woman said, and be prepared to tell the class how she related the crossing of the Saints over the Mississippi River to her life.

We're here by the Mississippi river, where the Saints crossed to go to the west. I think that we all have different experiences where we have to overcome trials, and it's the same as the Saints crossing the river in a way. We all have to cross the river. The best thing that I can do is just try to keep the Spirit with me and live worthy, to stand in holy places, and to go to the temple and receive the blessings there.

I was going to have each student share what they came up with after giving them a couple of minutes to read their slip of paper and think.

And that's it!  Now it's time to work on this week's lesson.  Phew! 

Thursday, May 9, 2013

The Lesson - How Can I Improve My Scripture Study? - What I Did.

Kay, so I actually taught this lesson last July.  We were in the pilot program last summer for the new youth curriculum.  And, apparently, they've kind of moved topics around, so this lesson has come around sooner than I thought it would, but I was glad. This is why I put these up here - so I can refer to them the following year.  So I looked at my lesson from last July.  It's here

Last July, I felt impressed to make little temporary scripture journals for all of my students.  I wasn't feeling that for this time, just because it hasn't been that long since I did that for them.  But I really do recommend it.  Scripture journaling has really made my own scripture study so much better.

Anyways, so here is what I did this last Sunday.

*Before class, write on the board, "Immersion in the scriptures is essential for spiritual nourishment." - Quentin L. Cook

1.  Scripture Study Questions

In the lesson, it suggests that you ask your students what they've been reading in their personal scripture study, what they do when they study scriptures, and what they feel they could improve upon.  I felt like I'd probably get a crickets chirping moment if I just asked them, so I handed each of them one of these worksheets to fill out:


Some Questions about Your Scripture Study

Directions: These aren't thinking questions. They're writing questions. So get out your pens and shake 'em up!

A. Open up your scriptures to where you've been reading in your personal scripture study. Write down what you have been studying in the scriptures recently.




B. What is your daily plan for scripture study? Do you look up things by topic? Do you read one chapter after another? Do you keep a scripture journal? How many pages/verses/chapters do you like to read per day?




C. How do you feel that you could improve your scripture study?


I had a cute little picture of some eyeglasses on top of scriptures to jazz the worksheet up.  And yes, one of my students started thoroughly shaking up his pen.  Have I ever told you how much I love these kids?  I do.

So then I asked them, one by one, what they had written.  I felt the vibe that they didn't want to discuss the third question, so I just told them to let that question be rhetorical, and to remember what they wrote down about how they want to improve in their scripture study. 

2.  Scriptural Immersion

I pointed to the quote on the board.  I asked my students what they think it means to immerse themselves in the scriptures, versus figuratively dipping one toe in the waters of the scriptures.  So they talked about how you don't just read the scriptures - sometimes you look up something, sometimes you pause and think, sometimes you write something down in your scripture journal, sometimes you pray about something you read, etc.  I told them that, obviously, our goal is to immerse ourselves in the scriptures, to really involve ourselves in the process.

3.  Search, Ponder, and Pray Activity

I told our students that the scriptures actually teach us how we should read the scriptures.  The lesson has tons of good scriptures for the kids to look up on how to study the scriptures.  I wanted to have them read the scriptures, but I didn't want it to be too boring, so I had an idea.  I decided to use my daughter's money box.  It has three sections in it - one for spending, one for saving, and one for tithing.  With her very gracious permission, I emptied each section and put them in labeled ziplock bags so she could replenish her box after I was done with it.  Then I re-labeled each section like so:

You could obviously have three different jars and label them or whatever.  Then I gave each student a scripture to look up.  I had them take turns reading their scripture out loud, and then they decided whether that scripture was talking about searching, pondering, or praying about scriptures, fold up their scripture slip, and put it in the right slot.  Here are the scripture slips:

Directions: Look up the following scripture. Be prepared to read it aloud. We'll take turns reading our scriptures aloud. After you've read yours aloud, you'll fold this piece of paper and put it into the appropriate slot in the Search, Ponder, and Pray box.

2 Ne. 4:15

Directions: Look up the following scripture. Be prepared to read it aloud. We'll take turns reading our scriptures aloud. After you've read yours aloud, you'll fold this piece of paper and put it into the appropriate slot in the Search, Ponder, and Pray box.

Josh 1:8

Directions: Look up the following scripture. Be prepared to read it aloud. We'll take turns reading our scriptures aloud. After you've read yours aloud, you'll fold this piece of paper and put it into the appropriate slot in the Search, Ponder, and Pray box.

D&C 138:1

Directions: Look up the following scripture. Be prepared to read it aloud. We'll take turns reading our scriptures aloud. After you've read yours aloud, you'll fold this piece of paper and put it into the appropriate slot in the Search, Ponder, and Pray box.

Msh. 1:7

Directions: Look up the following scripture. Be prepared to read it aloud. We'll take turns reading our scriptures aloud. After you've read yours aloud, you'll fold this piece of paper and put it into the appropriate slot in the Search, Ponder, and Pray box.

John 5:39

Directions: Look up the following scripture. Be prepared to read it aloud. We'll take turns reading our scriptures aloud. After you've read yours aloud, you'll fold this piece of paper and put it into the appropriate slot in the Search, Ponder, and Pray box.

Acts 17:11

Directions: Look up the following scripture. Be prepared to read it aloud. We'll take turns reading our scriptures aloud. After you've read yours aloud, you'll fold this piece of paper and put it into the appropriate slot in the Search, Ponder, and Pray box.

Jacob 7:23

Directions: Look up the following scripture. Be prepared to read it aloud. We'll take turns reading our scriptures aloud. After you've read yours aloud, you'll fold this piece of paper and put it into the appropriate slot in the Search, Ponder, and Pray box.

Alma 33:2


Directions: Look up the following scripture. Be prepared to read it aloud. We'll take turns reading our scriptures aloud. After you've read yours aloud, you'll fold this piece of paper and put it into the appropriate slot in the Search, Ponder, and Pray box.

3 Ne. 10:14

Directions: Look up the following scripture. Be prepared to read it aloud. We'll take turns reading our scriptures aloud. After you've read yours aloud, you'll fold this piece of paper and put it into the appropriate slot in the Search, Ponder, and Pray box.

3 Ne. 20:11

Directions: Look up the following scripture. Be prepared to read it aloud. We'll take turns reading our scriptures aloud. After you've read yours aloud, you'll fold this piece of paper and put it into the appropriate slot in the Search, Ponder, and Pray box.

D&C 1:37

Directions: Look up the following scripture. Be prepared to read it aloud. We'll take turns reading our scriptures aloud. After you've read yours aloud, you'll fold this piece of paper and put it into the appropriate slot in the Search, Ponder, and Pray box.

Mni 10:4-5

Directions: Look up the following scripture. Be prepared to read it aloud. We'll take turns reading our scriptures aloud. After you've read yours aloud, you'll fold this piece of paper and put it into the appropriate slot in the Search, Ponder, and Pray box.

JSH 1:13

I actually decided I wanted to do this activity with my kids for Family Home Evening, but they are much younger than my Sunday School students.  So I changed it a bit for them.  We have two kids who can read and two who can't.  I kind of paraphrased the scripture and actually typed it on the paper for them.  Then my kids would take turn reading the paraphrased scripture, decide which slot to put their phrase, and then they would either put it in the correct slot or help one of their little brothers put it in the correct slot.  Here's my simplified, primary-aged version:

3 Ne. 10:14

“He that hath the scriptures, let him search them.”

3 Ne. 20:11

“Ye have the scriptures before you; therefore, search them.”

D&C 1:37

“Search these scriptures, for they are true and faithful.”

Moroni 10:4

“Ask God if these scriptures are true.”

2 Ne. 4:15-16

“My soul delighteth in the scriptures, and my heart pondereth them.”

D&C 138:1

“I sat in my room pondering over the scriptures.”

Mosiah 1:7

“Remember to search the scriptures diligently, that ye may profit thereby.”

John 5:39

“Search the scriptures, for in them ye think ye have eternal life.”

Acts 17:11

“They searched the scriptures daily.”

Jacob 7:23

“They searched the scriptures, and hearkened no more to the words of wicked men.”

Alma 33:2

“Ye ought to search the scriptures, so that ye understand them.”
 

4.  Interview with Elder Eyring

I really liked how this activity went last year, so I did the exact same thing as I did last year.  I wrote the questions that the interviewer asked him in the article on a poster:
(I actually had kept the poster from last year, so I had it on hand.  Badda-bing, badda-boom.)

Then I kind of shortened his answers a little - just including the most pertinent parts that directly answer the questions:
Here are the questions and the answers that I shortened:

How has scripture study benefited you personally?

The scriptures were one of the ways God spoke to me—even when I was a child—about my needs, my situation, and my life. They still are. Since our needs change over a lifetime, God has different things to tell us at different times... [When I go to the scriptures], invariably I find new ideas, thoughts I have never had before, and I receive inspiration and instruction and answers to my questions.

Why should we read the Book of Mormon on an ongoing basis?

The Book of Mormon is another testament of Jesus Christ, and we learn about Him in its pages. We know that it has great power. It has the power to change lives. It has the power to convert... Through the Book of Mormon the Lord can also teach us about being with and serving people. This book reveals the will of the Lord for family life in a way that the other scriptures don’t even approach... Another reason to study it regularly... [is that] the Holy Ghost bears personal witness to me that it is the word of God. I know the Lord is speaking.

What have you done to make your own scripture study meaningful?

I [bought] an inexpensive set of scriptures and mark the insights and revelations I gain in my calling. I asked Heavenly Father what He would have me do as an Apostle. I wrote down what I felt His answers were. I typed, color coded, and pasted those answers in the front of my scriptures. For example, the first one was “I am to be a witness that Christ is the Son of God.” Then I read my scriptures looking for ideas that taught me how to witness that Christ is the Son of God. Every time I came to something, I marked it in blue. Soon I developed my own topical guide around what I thought the Lord wanted me to do. I have learned much through this process.

How can Latter-day Saints make scripture study a priority?

The only way you can be sure that a busy schedule doesn’t crowd out scripture study is to establish a regular time to study the scriptures. I have found that the beginning of the day and the end of the day are mine. Those are times I can usually control.

What role do fasting and prayer play in scripture study?

Likewise, we need to go to the scriptures humbly and eagerly, as we do when we fast. When I go to the scriptures asking to be taught, then adding fasting helps tremendously... Fasting and prayer work together with scripture study, making it easier for the Lord to teach us.

How can parents help their children love the scriptures?

Scripture study works well only if your children know you love the scriptures and they also know as individuals that you love them... You have to be realistic. Let teens know you love them. Make sure they know you love the scriptures. However, if they want to go to their rooms and read, let them. They’ll find their own pattern and fall in love with the scriptures.

How can seminary help young people learn to love the scriptures?

Seminary teachers have tried all sorts of methods—scripture chases, assignments, and scripture mastery. Success varies from student to student, but when seminary works, you find a teacher who has a testimony and who loves the young people.

Why is it important for us as teachers in our wards and branches to teach using the approved curriculum?

Church curriculum is scripture based, so a teacher who follows the curriculum will be taking the students to the scriptures. The greatest teachers I have known introduce a scripture during class discussion that speaks to the need or the interest of the student who has just spoken. There is tremendous power in doing that. The moment a young person actually sees a teacher using the scriptures to clarify and to help in a very personal way—oh my, that is a great moment.



What is the role of the Holy Ghost in scripture study?

The Holy Ghost confirms to us the word of God when we read it. That confirmation, repeated often, strengthens our faith. And it is by faith that we overcome obstacles and resist temptation. There is a peaceful effect in a classroom when you read the word of God. The words of the scriptures themselves bring the Holy Ghost.



What can we look forward to as we consistently study the scriptures?
In time, if you truly begin to feast upon the scriptures, you will find that they become a part of you... We all can have the dream of someday having the word of God be so much a part of us that the Lord can draw upon it and we can learn to think as He does. And in the process we can come unto Him.



I printed the above for myself as an "answer key," in case I needed it.  Then I printed another and cut just the answers out and mixed them up.  Then, in class, I handed each answer to each of the kids. Some kids had two slips of paper, because I had fewer kids than questions.  They read their answer and tried to decide which question the answer went to.  If we had had more time, I would have had them take turns, and, one by one, reading their quote aloud, and then pasting it up to the question it went to.  We were running out of time at this point, so I just had them read their quote on their own and match it to the questions.  We had a couple of kids mix up their answers, so using my handy-dandy answer key, I was able to quickly put them where they belonged.

*And then we ran out of time.  If we had had more time, I had one more thing planned.  Here it is:

5.  Study Aids Activity

I liked the ideas about study aids that the lesson pointed us to in Teaching, No Greater Call.  I was going to have them work in pairs.  I was going to hand each pair these slips of paper:

Bible Dictionary: To appreciate the enrichment that the Bible Dictionary provides, look up the word grace (page 697). Study the definition carefully. Then read the scripture references provided. These verses of scripture have greater significance when you ponder the definition of grace. Pick your favorite of these scriptures and be prepared to share it with the class.

Footnotes: The most common type of footnote is a cross-reference to other scripture passages in the standard works. These additional passages often clarify or add insight to the passage you are reading. For example, look up Doctrine and Covenants 11:21. Read the verse, and then read the passages listed in footnote b. How do these passages increase your understanding of the verse? Write your answer here and be prepared to share it.

Topical Guide: Turn to the Topical Guide in your scriptures and look up the word abide. Note that the names of books of scripture appear in bold. Scripture passages from each book follow. Each scripture passage in the list contains the word abide, shown by the abbreviation a. Pick your favorite scripture and be prepared to share it with the class.

Chapter Headings: The major principles in the Word of Wisdom are described in the heading for Doctrine and Covenants 89. Read these principles in the heading and then highlight them in the scripture text. Be prepared to tell us which parts of which verses you highlighted.

If they struggled, I wanted to have some responses of my own handy. So I did each of these activities the night before and jotted down my "answers.":

Bible Dictionary:  My favorite is Philip. 4:13.  It illustrates simply what the Bible Dictionary tells us that grace can do - help us receive strength.

Footnote:  Alma 17:2 says that the sons of Mosiah had searched the scriptures diligently.  That is how you "obtain the word."  D&C 84:85 says to treasure up the words of life continually.  So obtaining them involves treasuring them.

Topical Guide:  My favorite is John 14:16.  I just like the thought that the Holy Ghost abides with me, and can, forever.  That he can be there to help me and comfort me.

Chapter Headings:  I underlined single words in the chapter by using the chapter heading as a guide.  So, for example, the chapter heading says that wine, strong drinks, tobacco, and hot drinks are in verses 1-9.  So I scanned through those verses and underlined each of those individual words.  I did the same thing with verses 10-17 - underlined the single words that were mentioned in the chapter heading.  And then I blocked verses 18-21 and wrote "blessings" by it.

And that's all I've got!  I still have one of April's lessons to put up here.  But my two-year-old is trying to climb up onto my printer, so I'm outta here for today. :)

 


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